All I can say stinger is not in my town. My kids knew lots of kids who went to private schools and they had quite a bit in common. But my kids were in the top percentile of the public school. If you compared the top level at our school to the private school kids are very similar. But if you look at the entire student body there is no similarity at all. The private school doesnt' have kids from the projects, gangs, latinos, Vietnamese, free lunch kids, kids who can't afford their own cleats for track/football, etc. Nor do they have kids who's parents don't care about what goes on at school. If you're telling me that where you live there's no real difference between public and private schools then I'd say you must live in one of the most amazing places in America.
I'm saying there's not a lot of difference in the public and private school students
in my area of the city. You can compare North Gwinnett kids to Central Gwinnett kids and see a BIG difference, and they're all public school kids. That's a red herring. You find that between public/public and private/private as well. Most private school kids are going to compare favorably with the majority of the local public school kids who live in the same area. They won't compare to the lower 20% of the school, or perhaps even the upper 20%, for that matter. You have a misconception that private school kids are all from wealthy families. That is patently wrong. Most private school kids these days are just like yours.
No, there are no gangs openly active at my daughters' school, but I wouldn't be surprised if a few of the kids are in gangs. There is little to no drug activity on the campus of my daughters' school, but I'd not be surprised if a few of the students haven't done drugs. There is no open sexual expressions at my daughters' school, but I'd not be surprised if a few (maybe more) are sexually active. It doesn't happen at the school because it is far smaller than the local public counterpart, and is far easier to police by teachers and administrators. BTW, there are fights that break out from time to time, and they are quickly broken up. You know, they're just kids, not privileged VIP's. Their parents all do what we do - sacrifice to get a God-centered education.
I know a single mom who has her kids in private school, who are on almost 100% scholarship. This mom is on disability, and can barely afford clothes for her son. As I said, my daughter had a mentally disabled boy in her first grade class. There are kids who struggle to keep up, and those who don't keep up. The only difference here is those student eventually don't come back.
I know that many of the kids in my daughters' school are from the neighborhood around the school and represent the same group of kids that go to the school. This is the way it is with most of the kids in main-line private schools around. it's most likely that way with your community, too. My daughters have an Hispanic teacher, and a black PE teacher. They have school friends of various nationalities - Indian, Jamaican, Nigerian, Oriental, Cuban, Mexican, and others.
No, many of the lower economic scale students aren't there, but I don't live around many lower economic class people. I doubt you do either. I'd suggest that you take a trip down to your local Christian school and take a look. Those kids are the same as anywhere else, they just dress (and act) quite differently - not because they are any different themselves, but because they are held to a different standard.
FWIW, I live in Buford, work in Suwanee, and my girls go to school in Lawrenceville. The high schools in my area are Collins Hill, Buford and North Gwinnett. They are very homogeneous, with N Gwinnett being a bit more affluent, Buford having a few more "project" kids, and Collins Hill in the middle. One of the families up the hill from me sends their kids to GACS, and mine go to another one. If you walked through my neighborhood, you couldn't tell who is a public school kid and who is a private school kid, unless you saw their shirt with the logo on it.
Sorry, that's the way it is.